What if we're not on the same page?

Sometimes it happens that not everyone in the household is on the same page on the story. Attorney's see cases when the second member of the marriage does not realize how unhappy their spouse is. It doesn't happen a lot, but there are times when one member of the marriage does not want to get divorced and becomes surprised with the others decision to file for a divorce.

It is highly advised that if you find yourself in a situation where you are faced with a shocking divorce decision that you try and talk to the other member of the marriage. It is understood that this may not always be a choice as they may not agree to speaking with you but it is the best decision for you.

If the other member of the marriage is willing to talk over the decision to get divorced you may be able to come to terms and agree to dissolve the divorce or you may even just become more aware of the problems and agree that the best choice is to get divorced.

As difficult as it may be to face the problem, you have to talk to the other member in the marriage if you wish to not get divorced. If you try and talk to your significant other and they will not meet with you there is still another option for you to pursue with the help of your attorney.

If you want to dispute the divorce you can through the courts. You have the option to hire an attorney to help you proceed with the process. You will need to file a petition for dissolution. When you file this petition you can put off the divorce by 60 days. During these 60 days you will be required to have a conciliation meeting where you will discuss your desire to stay married as well as the reasons the other members sees for getting a divorce.

The conciliation meeting is meant only to give you and your significant other the opportunity to meet and talk about the big decision you are going to be making. If the other party till wishes to get a divorce there is nothing that you can do to stop them. The reconciliation meeting is the last option you have when it comes to not wanting to become divorced.